First, You must pay your Dues
Phishthetide
I can understand your frustration. I felt the same way about 30 years ago when I first started surf fishing at the age of 16. However there are a few basic rules I learned to follow:
Rule # 1 (outside of luck) You must first pay your dues and do the time. Do your homework. Experience and gathered knowledge will be your best teacher.
Rule # 2 Watch what the other sharpie surf rats are doing, what their using and and how their using it. Don't be afraid to ask them a question (but not too many). (Once you become a sharpie be willing to share your knowledge as well)
Rule # 3 Learn to read a beach and rips.
There are a few books on surf fishing that will tell you how. (Or you can hire a guide)
Rule # 4 Fish the various tides, moon phases and weather conditions at various hours. (Including the wee hours!)Striped Bass are nocturnal feeders.
Rule # 5 Find and support a local knowledgeable surf tackle shop.
Rule #6 Be patient! "Good things come to those who wait" Even if you don't catch be happy & Grateful that your lifestyle gives you the time to do it! After WTC attack I now count my blessings!
Rule # 7 Learn to live with very little sleep, and drink lots of coffee.
Rule # 8 Keep and record a fishing log.
Rule # 9 Don't forget "Family Comes First"
Rule # 10 It doesn't hurt to say a few prayers now and then!
Tag & Release
Tiderunner
P.S
The areas in which you live are all prime striper territory, especially near, around and on those jetties.